Holistic sex counselling - cultivating a fulfilling sexuality
"A fulfilling sex life brings happiness, harmony, and improved health."
Juliane Zelger
Welcome
I am Juliane Zelger, Sexologist M.A. and support your journey to sexual health. I offer online
trauma-informed
individual counselling- couple counselling - workshops
for those who are dissatisfied with their sexuality, experiencing dysfunction, or eager to learn something new.
My sex counselling sessions provide a safe and confidential space where the focus is entirely on you and your unique sexuality. The sessions follow the holistic model of sexual health, Sexocorporel.
The online workshops offer an open and safe environment for learning, exploring, sharing, and having fun.
Do you feel a lack of desire, experience pain during sex, or struggle to reach orgasm? Do you want to connect more deeply with your body, understand yourself better, and finally express your needs and desires?
Then you’ve come to the right place!
Supporting you on this journey is my expertise!
Possible topics in sex counselling include:
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Pain during sex.
Painful vulva or vagina.
Lack of desire.
Vaginismus (the inability to insert anything into the vagina).
Difficulty with natural lubrication.
Anorgasmia (the inability to experience orgasm).
Orgasm occurs during masturbation but not during partnered sex.
Orgasm is only possible with a sex toy (vibrator).
Difficulty letting go and "turning off" the mind during sex.
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Erection problems.
Premature ejaculation.
Insecurities during sex.
Frequent (excessive) porn consumption.
Low sexual desire.
Delayed ejaculation (difficulty reaching orgasm).
Orgasm occurs during masturbation but not during partnered sex.
Difficulty letting go and "turning off" the mind during sex.
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Lack of desire for the intimacy you're sharing.
The attraction has faded.
Your sex life has become stagnant.
Finding it hard to make time for intimacy.
You wish to enhance communication about your sexual needs.
Experiencing differing sexual desires.
"Find out in a free introductory session if my counseling services are the right fit for you and your needs.
Professional Qualifications
Bachelor of Arts in Sociology (University of Innsbruck)
Nutrition Coach
Certified Nutrition Consultant in Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM)
Master of Arts in Sexology – Sexual Health and Counseling (Merseburg University of Applied Sciences)
Advanced Training: Sexual Fantasies in Therapy (with Dr. Angelika Eck)
2024-2025: Systemic Sex and Couples Therapy (with Prof. Dr. Ulrich Clement)
Work Experience
Many years of personal experience with various meditation schools, mindfulness practices, and embodiment techniques.
Extensive experience in the social sector.
Self-employed as a sex counselor since 2021.
2022: Participation counselor, crisis counselor, and sex counselor at Offener Dialog e.V. in Leipzig.
2022: Leadership and organization of the self-help group “Self-Determined Sexualities” for people with disabilities in Leipzig.
Since 2024: Sex coach at BestLover (best-lover.de).
What my clients say:
"A fulfilling sexuality can be learned – take the leap and book your free introductory session now."
How does a sexual counselling process work?
First, we meet online for a free introductory consultation. During this session, I explain my approach in more detail, and you can tell me why you are interested in sexual counseling. If we all feel that working together is a good fit, we schedule the first counseling session.
In the first sexual counseling session, we explore your concerns more deeply, formulate your wishes and goals, and I provide an overview of possible approaches.
I work with the mind-body connection (see approach), so the body plays an essential role in counseling. In the following sessions, we alternate between talking, practicing awareness, and tuning into the body, all tailored to your specific concerns.
Sessions take place every 1–2 weeks to allow enough time to integrate what has been learned.
Typically, sexual counseling lasts 6–12 sessions. However, there are exceptions: counseling can be completed after 3 sessions or may extend over a longer period.
All counselling sessions are confidential.
“It is important to me that the process takes place on an equal footing. I am an expert on sexuality, but you are the expert of your own, individual sexuality!”
Juliane Zelger
Individual sexual counselling
Online via Zoom
Single session (60 min.) €99 / session
For specific questions and an initial orientation, or if you prefer to pay per session.
6-Session Package “Sensuality & Transformation”. €540 (€90 / session)
This package focuses on lasting change: bringing body, mind, and emotions into harmony, unlocking your pleasure potential, and experiencing greater intimacy with yourself. With personalized exercises between sessions, you will integrate your progress long-term.
3-Session Package “Deepening & Clarity”. €285 (€95 / session)
Do you want to experience your sexuality more consciously, recognize blocking patterns, and feel the first changes? In three sessions, you will receive valuable guidance to deepen your body awareness and pleasure.
All options include a free 15-minute introductory consultation beforehand.
Couples sexual counselling
Online via Zoom
3-Session Package “Understanding & Connection”. €405 (€135 / session)
Do you want to improve your communication, experience your sexuality more consciously, and gain new insights for your relationship? Three sessions help you develop a deeper understanding of each other and find concrete solutions.
Single session (60 min.). €139 / session
For specific questions and an initial orientation, or if you prefer to pay per session.
6-Session Package “Sensuality & Transformation”. €780 (€130 / session)
For couples who want to sustainably strengthen their intimacy and emotional closeness. This is a space to work through limiting patterns, bring more ease into your love life, and elevate your connection to a new level. Includes personalized exercises for everyday life.
All options include a free 15-minute introductory consultation beforehand.
Approach
The foundation of my sex counseling work is the sexological model Sexocorporel, developed by Prof. Jean-Yves Desjardins at the Département de Sexologie of the Université du Québec in Montréal.
This approach to sexual health focuses on clients' existing resources and potentials. Through specific learning steps, sexual development is encouraged, enabling an active and conscious approach to sexuality. Various aspects of sexuality are explored and integrated. The counseling includes conversations, body exercises, and perception training.
What makes Sexocorporel-based sex counseling unique is its holistic view of the body-mind connection, emphasizing that sexual learning happens through the body. This means that while sexual concerns are discussed, they are not endlessly analyzed. Instead, the focus is on how a person experiences sexuality - what the body does and how this influences emotions and thoughts.
My work incorporates movement, rhythm, muscle tone (tension/relaxation), and spatial awareness. Through guided exercises and tailored homework, ingrained patterns that contribute to sexual difficulties can be disrupted and relearned. This process strengthens perception and sensation, allowing for deeper change and growth