Holistic sex coaching - cultivating a fulfilling sexuality

"A fulfilling sex life brings happiness, harmony, and improved health."

Juliane Zelger

Welcome

I am Juliane Zelger, Sexologist M.A. and support your journey to sexual health. I offer online

individual counseling- couple counseling - workshops

for those who are dissatisfied with their sexuality, experiencing dysfunction, or eager to learn something new.

My sex counseling sessions provide a safe and confidential space where the focus is entirely on you and your unique sexuality. The sessions follow the holistic model of sexual health, Sexocorporel.

The online workshops offer an open and safe environment for learning, exploring, sharing, and having fun.

Do you feel a lack of desire, experience pain during sex, or struggle to reach orgasm? Do you want to connect more deeply with your body, understand yourself better, and finally express your needs and desires?

Then you’ve come to the right place!

Supporting you on this journey is my expertise!

Possible topics in sex counseling include:

    • Pain during sex.

    • Painful vulva or vagina.

    • Lack of desire.

    • Vaginismus (the inability to insert anything into the vagina).

    • Difficulty with natural lubrication.

    • Anorgasmia (the inability to experience orgasm).

    • Orgasm occurs during masturbation but not during partnered sex.

    • Orgasm is only possible with a sex toy (vibrator).

    • Difficulty letting go and "turning off" the mind during sex.

    • Erection problems.

    • Premature ejaculation.

    • Insecurities during sex.

    • Frequent (excessive) porn consumption.

    • Low sexual desire.

    • Delayed ejaculation (difficulty reaching orgasm).

    • Orgasm occurs during masturbation but not during partnered sex.

    • Difficulty letting go and "turning off" the mind during sex.

    • Lack of desire for the intimacy you're sharing.

    • The attraction has faded.

    • Your sex life has become stagnant.

    • Finding it hard to make time for intimacy.

    • You wish to enhance communication about your sexual needs.

    • Experiencing differing sexual desires.

"Find out in a free introductory session if my counseling services are the right fit for you and your needs.

Professional Qualifications

  • Bachelor of Arts in Sociology (University of Innsbruck)

  • Nutrition Coach

  • Certified Nutrition Consultant in Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM)

  • Master of Arts in Sexology – Sexual Health and Counseling (Merseburg University of Applied Sciences)

  • Advanced Training: Sexual Fantasies in Therapy (with Dr. Angelika Eck)

  • 2024-2025: Systemic Sex and Couples Therapy (with Prof. Dr. Ulrich Clement)

Work Experience

  • Many years of personal experience with various meditation schools, mindfulness practices, and embodiment techniques.

  • Extensive experience in the social sector.

  • Self-employed as a sex counselor since 2021.

  • 2022: Participation counselor, crisis counselor, and sex counselor at Offener Dialog e.V. in Leipzig.

  • 2022: Leadership and organization of the self-help group “Self-Determined Sexualities” for people with disabilities in Leipzig.

  • Since 2024: Sex coach at BestLover (best-lover.de).

What my clients say:

  • "Dear Juliane, Through therapy, I have discovered ways to heal my body on my own and have learned that sexuality does not have to be divided into good or bad, but is as individual and nuanced as we are. With great care, joy, and patience, you gently guide one to connect with their own – yet sometimes unfamiliar – body.

    The therapy sessions and body exercises have made it a routine to engage with my body daily and to appreciate it just as it is. I have finally lost my fear of allowing physical closeness and letting go without my mind being overwhelmed by thoughts.

    Not only was I able to put my diffuse fears into words and truly feel them, but I was also able to overcome them to a great extent. I am deeply grateful for your wonderful work with me and for your guidance.”

    - Clara, female

  • "I came to counseling during a major crisis, and I am so grateful that I was able to overcome it with Juliane’s support. Together, we reflected on my behavior and developed strategies that continue to help me even after the sessions.

    I can highly recommend the counseling and am deeply thankful to Juliane for her open yet trusting guidance. Once again, thank you so much and best wishes!"

    - N., male, 23 years

  • "At first, I was very hesitant to reach out to a sexologist. But eventually, I took the leap and booked an appointment – and I haven't regretted it for a second!

    Juliane is an incredibly kind and empathetic person who approached me and my concerns with great sensitivity and without any pressure. I always felt well supported, and she helped me tremendously with my issues – through expert knowledge, trusting conversations, and wonderful body exercises to practice at home.

    I can wholeheartedly recommend her, 100%!"“

    - I., female, 31 years

  • "Dear Juliane,I am so grateful for your guidance. Through your knowledge, empathy, and openness, I can finally experience, embrace, and live my sexuality more consciously, freely, and intensely again.

    My body awareness has become stronger and more sensitive… and my self-love has grown so much. From the bottom of my heart, I am thankful for this experience and for you simply being you."

    - T., female, 31 years

  • "The sex counseling has given me so much self-confidence and quality of life back. Juliane is very empathetic, which creates a very comfortable foundation for the counseling work. The combination of body exercises and conversations has been especially helpful to me.

    Dear Juliane, I am so grateful for the counseling sessions and your amazing, positive energy!"

    - L., female, 21 years

"A fulfilling sexuality can be learned – take the leap and book your free introductory session now."